Transformative Men's Health Counseling

When it comes to men's health there is a contradiction: Men are supposed to be strong and in control, but our inner reality often does not match this ideal. The advantages men have in society do not translate into better health outcomes in general. Men tend to be in worse health than women globally and many of the behaviors associated with ‘masculinity’ increase the risk of illness, injury, mental disorder, and relationship problems. The counseling program I offer is designed to help you let go of unhelpful gender norms to empower yourself through mindful awareness and heartful connections. I'm ready to work with you on the following topics that are often interrelated.

Social Isolation

Relationship Issues

Problems with Pornography Use

Unfaithfulness and Infidelity

Anger and Irritability

Aggressive Outbursts

Substance Use Problems

Male Depression


Do not judge me by my successes,

judge me by how many times I fell down

and got back up again.

Nelson Mandela


Assess for Out of Control Sexual Behavior

Men's health includes sexual health. Upon request, I assess and treat Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB). This innovative approach goes beyond conventional sex addiction treatments. The program will help you manifest your vision of sexual health rather than merely making you abstain from problem behaviors.


Hans Reihling, Ph.D., LMFT

8885 Rio San Diego Drive, #365
San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 663-4267



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Free Consultation

Get to know me

Screening for OCSB

Ask questions

Learn about the services

Check out the location

Get referrals if necessary

Make a plan to move forward

OCSB Assessment

1 x 50-min face-to-face session

Skills-building questions

Tools to empower yourself

Access to personal client platform

Adverse Childhood Experiences Inventory

Sexual Symptom Assessment Scale

Sexual Inhibition/Excitation Scales

Attachment Style Assessment

Individual Therapy

1 x 50-min face-to-face sessions

Skills-building questions

Tools to empower yourself

Access to personal client platform

Ongoing mood tracking

Guided audio activities

Unlimited texting

Home assignments

I offer services on a sliding scale fee. There are low-fee openings for clients who have a financial hardship or lack people who support their recovery financially. All face-to-face sessions can be held either at my office or online. Text messages in the secure client chat are usually answered within 24 hours. Don't hesitate to contact me and I will answer your questions.